As we prepare to go into a new year I have a few things that I want to share with you all. Sometimes it is the big things holding us back – like education, employment, and income. Sometimes the small things cause difficulties in our life – like habits, relationships, and appearance. And sometimes it is our unconscious internal beliefs that make us view life and people in a way that is actually stifling. Let’s work on all of these areas and become the best person that we can be!
Here are a few tips that I hope can assist you in your journey.
10 tips for 2019……
1-Stop trying to make people do what you want them to do. Accept them for who they are and what they bring. Leave it at that.
2-Stop looking for a logical reason in illogical situations. Everything isn’t going to make sense. Life and people are complicated.
3-Spend as much time looking at yourself & your life as you do others. We all know what is wrong with everyone else, including celebrities we don’t even know, but don’t know what’s wrong with our own self.
4-Less judgment and more compassion. You don’t have to understand or agree. Just try having a little more compassion towards others, and extending some mercy and grace, instead of being so harsh and judgmental.
5-Get your mental health together.
6-The answers are in you and God. Usually not outside forces. You are looking for people and situations to change, but it’s you that needs to change.
7-Fighting doesn’t make you a real man or woman. Stick up for yourself, family, & friends for sure. But understand that’s not what makes you a solid person. Unfortunately, in my culture many people view physically fighting as making you tough and gets you respect. Actually it’s the opposite, it’s weak and makes people view you as immature, hot headed, and destructive. It takes more strength to walk away….remember that.
8-If you keep repeating the narrative there are no good people in the world, you will keep attracting people & situations that are toxic.
9-More action and less talking. You have talked about it enough. Get moving!
10-If you are in a relationship you don’t want to be in, leave. Don’t say anything else, don’t complain to your family & friends anymore. Just leave. You can make it on your own.
Make 2019 the year you get YOU together and focus on YOU.