Learn to fight in a different way, as a grown woman. Being from an urban environment I used to think arguing and fighting was “cute” and meant something. But as I grew as a woman and looked at women who were in positions that I desired, I saw they didn’t act like that. Fighting does not make you a woman, it’s ignorant and stupid. Learn to fight by earning your education, having an exciting career, having the income you desire, buying houses/cars, having savings/investments, helping other people, and being a good person despite life’s challenges…..now that’s how you FIGHT!!!